Philippians 1:6 "Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you WILL perform it until the day of Jesus Christ"



Monday, December 01, 2014

Merry Christmas 2014 from the Snyder Family

As we draw closer to closing the door on 2014, I am taking the time to reflect on the year. First of all, the years are flying by and my babies are growing up way too fast! Paige and Peyton turned 14 and started their freshman year...I have been making calls about drivers ed..eeek! Peyton is still very busy with playing the drums, she is active with the praise team at church. Paige plays guitar and loves her gymnastics classes. Paige also attended an area Homecoming this year and looked like a princess! Reese has taken some gymnastics, but we are thinking that a dance class is in her near future! I started back to school this fall also, it is a huge challenge and I am praying for God's direction in balancing school, kids, job, etc.. I am still working in the Emergency Room, but not very much, I took a part time job in the Recovery Room and enjoy the variety. In July I celebrated 20 years at the hospital and in August I celebrated my 40th birthday (yikes!) Reese turned 5 this past November with a terrific Princess Elsa party. James had a birthday in there also...James didn't have as many changes this year, but he has been very busy supporting us in all of ours! He is still working for the police department, which keeps him busy..but I think his house full of women keeps him busier!

In January, we all went our separate ways as Paige and Peyton went on a cruise to be in a wedding and James and I headed to Mexico. Reese stayed home with friends and family. Unfortunately the trips were planned when a blizzard hit Illinois and we almost didn't make it out of the midwest! In February, we welcomed a new family member..Boe the Bull Python! Most people are freaked out by our snake, but he is the easiest pet we have ever had! We spent the summer around the pool (when it wasn't cold and raining) and running the girls to all of their activities. Paige and Peyton attended church camp again in Schroon Lake, New York at Word of Life Island and had a fantastic time.  We have managed to squeeze in a trip or two to the Wisconsin Dells this year, our usual vacation spot. In October James, Reese and I flew to Texas for a few days to visit James's dad and his wife, Steve and Connie Snyder. This was Reese's first flight, and she loved it! The trip was fantastic, we enjoyed good food, good fellowship, a wonderful church service and some sight seeing in Dallas.

Finally, we are in prayer as this year closes and another begins for baby Bentley Reese. This little guy was born November 23 13 full weeks before his due date. He is my cousin's baby and we ask that you join us in praying for him and him mom and dad and grandparents as he grows. This verse has been close to my heart since the premature birth of my now teenagers: Philippians 1:6, "He who has begun a good work in you will be faithful to complete it.." That verse has become real to me again as I trust God with my girls as they grow. It has also been a comfort as I pray for baby Bentley.

Sandy and Family

Thursday, December 19, 2013

Merry Christmas from the Snyder's on Baltic Drive

I am trying out the great technology that we get from out smart phones, the capability to scan a bunch of little meaningless lines in a box and have a website show up in the browser.  So if you tried out your little scanner on our Christmas postcard and ended up here...welcome!


This is my version of a Christmas letter.  I enjoy getting Christmas letters and reading what is going on in the lives of people that I don't see regularly.  I suppose with Facebook, there probably aren't too many that don't already know way more about our family than they would like! ex..catching preschool puke in my hand to save the bedsheets..I know..a yucky facebook post!

2013 has been a busy and eventful year..a good one though. Paige and Peyton turned 13..celebrated with an overnight party at the YMCA. Sounded like a good idea when we booked it, I wasn't so sure the day it arrived!  Kids had fun and there were plenty of adults that hung out with us. The big girls and I also headed down to Buncombe Il (out in the middle of nowhere) to visit my dear friend Betsy and her little family.  This was a great trip..low tech and lots of outdoor time.

  Paige and Peyton are now extremely busy 8th graders.  They went to church camp in New York this past summer and LOVED it!  Reese and I went along and stayed at the nearby Inn and Conference Center. James and the dogs enjoyed the peace and quiet at home.  The Word of Life Camp, Conference Center, Teens Involved, all became a big part of our lives last year, and we have enjoyed it.  God has used some great people and this ministry to work in our lives and in the kids' lives. We are blessed and thankful!


 
 


We took 2 trips to the Wisconsin Dells this year.  This trip seems to be our family tradition and we love it!  We would definitely recommend The Wilderness in the Dells as a great and affordable vacation spot for families.  Enough of the commercial for the Resort..

James and I went to Branson for a few days this past summer.  We mostly enjoyed our 4 wheeling excursion and our day in St. Louis.  If you are ever in Branson, there is a family that has a 4 wheeling business just outside of town, and it is lots of fun, we highly recommend it.
 


 

Peyton went on a short term mission trip with her grandparents, Steve and Marie Thornsbrough, this past summer.  They went to Cedine Bible Camp in Tennessee.  This was a great experience for Peyton to serve others, they also found plenty of time to have fun!  Paige opted to stay home and go to gymnastics camp.  That brings us to weekly activities...

...I need to consult my planner every day or I get confused...Paige takes gymnastics at DIG (Danville Institute of Gymnastics) and really loves it.  Reese has also been taking classes there since the spring and (usually) loves it too!  Both Peyton and Paige were in a play this fall.  They worked very hard and had a great time in the Homeschool production of "The Wonderful Wizard of Oz."  Peyton has been playing basketball this fall also.  Paige has continued with guitar lessons and loves it participating in praise band at church.  Peyton is busy drumming (she got a full drum set last Christmas) and she also participates in praise band. Peyton is also on the Bell choir at Calvary this year.  Her first performance is coming up this Sunday..she is excited! 

Speaking of drums..Peyton and I took a trip to Chicago this past fall.  It was a great few days together and we enjoyed the city and using public transportation!  Peyton and I spend lots of time at The Music Garage's Vic's Drum Shop.  Peyton attended a drum clinic and got to spend lots of time checking out different types of drums.  We also went on a Segway tour of downtown Chicago.  This was an extremely fun and educational activity.  I would definitely recommend one of these tours if you are looking for something to do in Chicago. 
 

Paige and I went to Chicago in the late spring and it was a totally different trip.  We used the hop on hop off trolley and checked out lots of museums.  We spend the majority of the time at the Art Museum, Paige was in art heaven! These trips with just myself and my young teen girls individually were fantastic and so worth it.  It was time I will always treasure to spend rare time alone with these girls!  James was fantastic to keep Reese at home and take care of everything here so that we were able to go. 
 


Another highlight of the year..the year of the dirty 5k's!  Started out with the Dirty Girl 5k that I got to do with a bunch of coworkers.  It is an all women 5k with tons of mud and obstacles that raises money for breast cancer.  We were the "Trauma Queens," and it was the most valuable team building exercise I have every done in all my years of health care..and it wasn't even officially work related!  Then James, Peyton, Paige and I did the Foam Fest 5k in June.  This was fun to do with the girls.  Of course, it was freezing and pouring..and the trail was a bit dangerous.  I spend half of it praying that I wouldn't all and break a wrist, ankle, leg..We finished up with the Warrior Dash in August.  This was what we did for my 39th birthday.  I was slower than anyone in our group, but we had a great time!  I realized I definitely need to get into better shape!
 


 


 

Our end of summer activity was the Finest vs Bravest Softball game that features the Wounded Warrior team.  This was, as always, a great event and James loves to play for the Finest..and Peyton loves to win a dance contest...James made the last out, so he looked cute in his pink tutu!
 

 



Lots of changes this year.  Reese turned 4 and moved out of the nursery and into the Beginner's Sunday School class, sniff sniff..my baby is getting big!  We also had people that were regulars in our lives that moved away this year, this was tough on me..and more so on the girls.  It is a good lesson on how God puts people in your lives for specific time periods and purposes.  We don't always understand why they have to move on, but we can pray for them, and be happy when visits are possible!  Specifically talking about Dan and Jessica Somerville, Sara Day Hyland, and The Molyneux family.  Paige and Peyton also had some special friends from their homeschool group that moved and this had left an impact in their lives.


Is it safe to say with 2 weeks left in the year that no one ended up in the ER or hospital this year?? (gulp)  We are very thankful for good health! 

As this Christmas season is upon us, I am looking forward to the annual reading of the Christmas story from the Bible that is usually done by my Uncle John at our Christmas Eve Reese family gathering.  It is my favorite Christmas memory and tradition.  To look around at my aunts, uncles cousins and our children, I am reminded of the true meaning of Christmas, and to slow down and enjoy these moments..that go by sooo fast. 

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And it came to pass in those days that a decree went out from Caesar Augustus that all the world should be registered. 2 This census first took place while Quirinius was governing Syria. 3 So all went to be registered, everyone to his own city.
4 Joseph also went up from Galilee, out of the city of Nazareth, into Judea, to the city of David, which is called Bethlehem, because he was of the house and lineage of David, 5 to be registered with Mary, his betrothed wife,[a] who was with child. 6 So it was, that while they were there, the days were completed for her to be delivered. 7 And she brought forth her firstborn Son, and wrapped Him in swaddling cloths, and laid Him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn.

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8 Now there were in the same country shepherds living out in the fields, keeping watch over their flock by night. 9 And behold,[b] an angel of the Lord stood before them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were greatly afraid. 10 Then the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid, for behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy which will be to all people. 11 For there is born to you this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord. 12 And this will be the sign to you: You will find a Babe wrapped in swaddling cloths, lying in a manger.”
13 And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying:
14 “Glory to God in the highest,
And on earth peace, goodwill toward men!”[c]
15 So it was, when the angels had gone away from them into heaven, that the shepherds said to one another, “Let us now go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has come to pass, which the Lord has made known to us.” 16 And they came with haste and found Mary and Joseph, and the Babe lying in a manger. 17 Now when they had seen Him, they made widely[d] known the saying which was told them concerning this Child. 18 And all those who heard it marveled at those things which were told them by the shepherds. 19 But Mary kept all these things and pondered them in her heart. 20 Then the shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things that they had heard and seen, as it was told them.
 

Sunday, March 13, 2011

new layout!

My sister's recent blogging has inspired me to rework my blog and try to make it more active again. I enjoyed it so much at one time, and it is a great way to share what is going on in my life!

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

repost from 2006..Pain doesn't kill

I stole this blog post from myself...I wrote it almost 4 years ago. I was thinking about this book that I had read by Beth Moore. These quotes have stuck with me, and I have been thinking about them alot since Sully's death. I don't blog much anymore, Facebook makes communication soo easy that I get lazy about it. But sometimes, whether there are readers or not, I want to share what is going on in my life. As most of you know, our family has had a painful year so far. My sister's beautiful Sully went home to be Safe in the Arms on Jesus on January 11. We have been kind of shell shocked ever since. But I am thankful to say that God has been active and presently in charge of our lives and circumstances. I am so proud of my family, and how they have each reacted, held each other up, and pointed each other toward God. Especially my sister, she has dealt with this pain with such grace. These quotes from Beth Moore's book remind us that it is always good to have loved, even when we lose what we love.

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I started reading "Feathers from My Nest" by Beth Moore. I love Beth Moore. I can always hear her southern accent speaking when I read her books, and it is soothing. I bought this book a few years ago when I attended a conference where she spoke. I am just starting it again, and I thought it would be a bit lighter that my last book. I guess not. I read this last night, when I was having a "painful moment." Thankfully, today hasn't been like that.

"I have learned that pain doesn't kill...I threw my hands over my heart and fought like a Trojan not to give way to it. God gently pulled my hands away and said, 'My child, go ahead and feel it. The pain will not kill you. It will be a reminder that you are very much alive, engaged, and that you loved with abandon. That was your primary assignment. Your present pain proved you did it.' It was at this moment God spoke a transforming truth into my life: The goal of life is not the absence of pain. It's the presence of glory. God's glory. And sometimes that comes most vividly with pain. Not only have I learned that pain doesn't kill; I have learned that I will never lose or be betrayed by the one thing with absolute power to destroy me-God Himself."

Tuesday, December 07, 2010

Christmas is coming!

What a year!  I sadly have little time for blogging.  What with working, chasing a walking running toddler around, and homeschooling two very active 5th graders.  I still check and participate in Facebook daily, though.  Reese has now had her first birthday.  It was a fun (large) celebration, and very bittersweet.  My very last baby is not much of a baby anymore!  The good news is that the big girls still love to cuddle with me and be babied, I am a very lucky mom!  James has finished his training for the Danville Police Department and is now out on his own.  He loves his job, and I couldn’t be happier for him.    My sister got a call in September to come and get a two day old (yes, TWO DAYS OLD) and we have been loving on him ever since.  She is doing great as a first time mom.  He is a foster child, but we love him as if he was born right into our family.  However, he IS a boy, and we don’t know anything about those!  We don’t know if God has in store for him to be in our family for a few months, a few years, or forever, but we are all loving him just the same (except maybe Reese, she could be a tad jealous…or just kind of rough)!

 

God has been wonderfully good to us.  I complain about soooo many little things, but I am truly thankful for all my blessings!  Here is our Christmas card 2010…christmaspic20102

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Time for a new post...Doubt vs faith

Since I haven't posted in 6 months..I think it is time! No cute kid pics right now..you can check out my facebook for that..my nearly 9 month old Reesie keeps me pretty busy, and blogging and sharing pics just hasn't been happening! This has been an eventful summer, and my Ladies Bible Study has been one of the high lights. Last week, we discussed what living with doubt about God's promises can do to your life. This week, we will be discussing the replacement for doubt, which is faith. We have been going through James McDonald's "Lord Change My Attitude." This has been a great book, and I am seeing gradual changes in my life along the way. I was very bothered by part of last week's chapter, and I openly shared with the group that I wasn't sure how I felt about what he was saying. It was clear to me that I didn't think I had a doubting problem..but I did.

I hate to be all over the place with this, but I have to back up a bit. Over 10 years ago, I was blessed with twins. Paige and Peyton were born very small and very early. However, they threatened throughout the pregnancy to be born too early for life, and then again too early for a normal life. God answered the fervent prayers for our family in a positive way. Now not everything went wonderful. They were in the hospital for 9 weeks, there were ups and downs, Paige was very sick and fragile for most of her first 2 months. But we brought them home, and they flourished! Even today, they are wonderful. We still have some physical and emotional scars, as well as a little asthma..but overall healthy (almost) 5th graders! They are a blessing to me and they are two of my best friends. I prayed..everybody prayed..and God gave me the desire of my heart.

When I was going through my divorce, I grew closer to God that ever before. I know that it isn't unusual to grow especially close to God during times of turmoil..that is probably the reason we HAVE turmoil! God took care of me..he took care of Paige and Peyton, but it didn't look at all like I expected it to. It has been hard to trust God, because I doubted that he wanted best for me, or for Paige and Peyton! But wait a minute..do I really know what is best for us? So arrogant, wanting to fix everything, make it peaceful for us all. While we as mothers wish to make things the easiest we can and what we think is best, that isn't necessarily what God has in mind for us. Earlier in the summer, our Bible study discussed thankfulness. I learned I need to be thankful for EVERY circumstance..not just the ones that seem to be a blessing. Nothing touches me (or my kids) without God's consent! So what does that say about worry in my life? I guess it is a waste of time.

I learned a verse this week that first thoroughly bothered me, because I didn't believe that God would protect me from harm.I wasn't sure if I could believe it..but then I read it again..
Isaiah 53:17 in NLT (try reading the whole chapter..click here to read it)
17 But in that coming day, no weapon turned against you will succeed. And everyone who tells lies in court will be brought to justice. These benefits are enjoyed by the servants of the LORD; their vindication will come from me. I, the LORD, have spoken

So...this morning (if you are still with me) I was cleaning blood off of the carpet in Reese's room (as many know, she has spit up blood in the past, did it most of Sunday, and unfortunately, has been doing it a bit today)...and I was listening to the radio in her room. A segment of encouragement for moms came on that was sponsored by Hearts at Home. They were speaking of worrying about our kids..I can't ever remember the examples, just the verses about how God knows the number of hairs on our heads. Not a new verse to me at all, but in that moment, when I was lost in thought, worrying about my daughter, wondering what to do next about her health issue, I stopped and realized that I needed to try a little more faith and alot less worry, and God has been growing me in this area..sometimes using a 2X4 to my head!

Reese has had a scope, appropriate lab work..and she is SOOO happy and active right now, so it is time to relax, pray about right choices for managing her health, and enjoy my children a little! (of course, we start homeschooling next week..so I will have all kinds of new reasons to worry.) Please pray for Reese and her health, Paige and Peyton as they start 5th grade, at home again with me, James as he continues in the training of his new job, and for me!

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

10th Birthday bash

Paige and Peyton celebrated almost 10 years since their birth with an ice skating party.  Skating is one of their favorite activities, so 9 of their friends joined us at the rink last Saturday night.  Aunt Jame caught everyone on camera!

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Saturday, January 30, 2010

Reese…two months old!

Reese rolled over last night..twice!  She has failed to do it again today, despite lots of coaxing from her mother and sisters.  She did, however, pose for some pictures to mark her two months of life with us..these are unedited, but here are my favorites!

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Monday, November 23, 2009

Meet Paige and Peyton’s sister!

Reese Madelynn Snyder was born at 9:51 am yesterday, Sunday, November 22.  I will post more about her birth later, but I am including some pictures!

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check out two full albums of pictures!

Monday, November 09, 2009

38 weeks!

 

I will admit, I never thought I would post a 38 week picture. Right now, I sincerely hope I don't post one for 40! But I am confident that God would give grace for that too! I haven't been sleeping well. Last night I spent most of on the couch, and walking around the house. I had contractions for most of the night, they were every 3-6 minutes, but they weren't very strong all the time, and each one was less than a minute long. So hopefully I will get more rest tonight! I am still trying to homeschool the girls regularly up until the last possible minute. I need prayer to be a patient mom to my two fourth graders. They have been troopers, active troopers, but loving and understanding non-the-less. I have had huge support from all my family and my husband (even though HE slept all night..didn't even notice when I ran the shower at 2 am!)
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Monday, November 02, 2009

Happy 37 weeks!

Paige and Peyton climbed into bed with me this morning and it wasn't long until I heard Paige say..."Happy 37 weeks!" Never thought I would hear that. I am now officially full term, and we are all very anxiously awaiting the time for JJ to decide to be born. Very grateful....and feeling very ready.

Saturday, October 31, 2009

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

praying for Stellen

Baby Stellen is again very sick. Click here for the latest blog post.

Monday, October 26, 2009

36 weeks!

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headed to the doctor tomorrow….

The past week in review….

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The Body Walk

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headed out to a Halloween birthday party

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Steph 13 weeks, me almost 36..this angle was kind to me!

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Betsy gave me a great shower!

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pumpkin carving

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finished pumpkins